Steve is coming home this weekend for the twins' birthday! We are all beyond excited! I must admit that I'm surprised at how well I'm doing so far. Of course I miss Steve terribly but am doing much better then I anticipated.
I have come up with only 3 positives for Steve being away...
1)
less laundry (contrary to popular belief he still dirties a lot of clothes even though he wears a flight suit everyday!)
2)
no toilet seat up (self explanatory)
3)
not going to sleep and waking up to Sports Desk (complete control of the remote is very nice! ha!ha!)
I feel so blessed with the
out pour of support. Everyone is checking in on me which is nice. I received this email from a friend of ours, Kim, who's husband, Jody, is also a military pilot and I go back and read it from time to time to make me feel better. Here's a little
snippet of her email...
I just read that you will be single parenting for the next five months. I single parented Emily for 5 of her first 12 months, off and on. The last time was for 9 weeks when Jody came home one day before her first birthday. It is taxing but totally doable. You will be absolutely fine. You will miss Steve like mad but you will be a better wife/mother (is that even possible with you? I know how fabulous you are!) as a result. Focus on your blessings and let go of the crap that doesn't really matter (like dusting. OK, so not for 5 months but you know what I mean).Hang in there. And ignore all those people who say, "I just don't know how you do it. I could not do that." I honestly believe God hand picks military wives for our strength of character and ability to focus on the bigger picture. We have fantastic men who are worth the wait. And if you get really ticked with people comments, tell them how hot the reunion sex is. Ha! Ha!It's nice to know someone went through it and is stronger for doing so. Thanks to everyone for your love ! I appreciate your friendship so much!
P.S. To my Mom and Dad...I'm doing well BUT I still want you to come visit OFTEN!
hee!
hee!